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Benefits of Prostate Massage

Friday, 29 April 2011 13:53 Written by conran 0 Comments

Despite the fact that millions of men throughout history have used prostate play and massage to increase sexual enjoyment and pleasure, only now are we waking up to this in the western world and getting over the anal thing to enjoy all the fantastic fun the prostate can deliver.

Even straight guys are exploring their ass more these days, with millions of men around the world waking up to their prostate in their quest to find new and interesting experiences and sensations to enjoy.

So what is the prostate and what can playing with it do for you?

The prostate is the gland which is considered to be the epicenter of the male climax. Located behind the penis and accessed through the anus, it is an incredibly sensitive area when massaged and played with.

Using toys or even a well placed finger can offer the male an immense and often intense sensation which is slightly different to that experienced through sex or masturbation.

Regular practitioners of prostate massage can often experience a constant state of pleasure when probing the glad, issuing a sticky fluid while they explore the area and experience the waves of pleasure. After a while, many men can experience a constant state of continuous pleasure on the scale of an orgasm while they massage the area, and only fully ejaculate when they allow pleasuring of the penis. When the final climax is achieved (either through direct penis masturbation or prostate play) the intensity of the climax can be quite extreme, with many claiming that the orgasm and pleasure they experience is several times more powerful than a traditional orgasm.

In addition to the increased pleasure, many who practice prostate stimulation also report an increased ejaculation, with more force and a greater amount of cum.

Not only can prostate stimulation be incredibly beneficial for pleasure and sex, but it’s actually good for your health too. Massaging the prostate increases the blood flow around the gland. This helps to maintain the health of this gland, much like masturbation does, but with a little more focus on the gland itself.

You do not need to do it, but many professionals now believe that regular prostate massage, when done correctly, can increase the general health of the prostate, maintain healthy semen production and reduce the risk of developing prostate cancer.

Check out this video to get an idea of prostate milking.

Tips

It is recommended that a prostate massager designed for the purpose be used as the finger is generally not long enough. You should never put anything up there not designed for the purpose.

Always use water based lube as silicone or oil based lubricants are considered unsafe for use with toys.

Seek medical advice if you are unsure of anything or experience unexpected discomfort.

Take it slow.

Don’t expect immediate increase of orgasm or semen. It takes practice but is very rewarding.

Use an anal douche to clean the area first and make the entire process much cleaner and more pleasant.

Have fun, and don’t be too “anal” about it all!

Is A Cock Fetish At Least Bisexual?

Wednesday, 27 April 2011 11:36 Written by conran 0 Comments

I recently read an interesting statistic presented by an article in the Times newspaper (UK) which stated that there are almost twice as many bisexual women as there are bisexual men. This began to make me think about the male same-sex research that I have done previously, and how male sexuality might be primarily influenced by social stigma and perception.

It is estimated that 2.8% of women state that they are bisexual, while only 1.8% of men state the same. But from my own research, it seems that many men recognize an appreciation for cock without ever making the change to declaring bisexuality, or even curiosity.

To these men, the act of watching other men having sex, masturbating, or even actually jerking off with another guy, does not propel them to question their sexuality. To them, they are simply straight guys who have a fetish or an appreciation for the penis or a specific sexual act – usually masturbation.

While my early research did reflect the expected low % of open bisexuality in male respondents, almost 30% of the men suggested that they were bi-curious – more men suggested that they were curious about male/male sex than identified as bisexual.

Through my research I have certainly formed the opinion that far more men who identify as heterosexual enjoy the idea of limited male/male sexual experiences than there are men who state that they are bisexual.

So why is this?

I firmly believe that male sexuality is far more complex than we are led to believe. Fetish plays its part, with a desire to watch a cock being enjoyed right at the top of the list for many men (just look at how much cock there is in straight porn!) and this attraction to the penis often confuses men who believe that they must choose a label and accept the lifestyle and all sexual acts which traditionally correspond.

Of course, the idea that a guy must have anal sex with other men in order to accept that he has a fetish for cock is nonsense, but social rules dictate that men must decide between the three specific groups.

If this shows anything, it shows that we needed the additional label of bi-curious to fill the void where many men find themselves. To state that you are bisexual is not acceptable to these men because it implies that they are “greedy” or somehow incapable of monogamy. To state that they are homosexual would of course not be accurate because they love sex with women. So there needed to be a place in-between where guy could enjoy their limited cock play with other guys, while continuing their heterosexual relationships with women and avoiding the social stigma of being bisexual.

The only problem now is making bi-curiosity as socially acceptable as bisexuality, heterosexuality and homosexuality. Thankfully, the teens out there right now are making these moves away from the labels and doing what they like with their friends of both sexes, spurred on by the imagery and information they find on-line. The journey will not be as long and difficult for them as it was for us, because they know how many of them there are, and a conversation is only a screen away.

Gay Virgin Advice

Sunday, 24 April 2011 11:58 Written by conran 0 Comments

I just saw a question on Yahoo! Q&A that got me thinking. It was from a 19 year old who is otherwise straight but wants to experiment. I think a lot of the responses are actually quite good. So I thought it might be fun to offer some advice here, as we probably get a lot of young guys visiting who have never actually been with another dude and may be unsure about it all.

: Guys enjoy different sexual activities together

Decide What You’re Looking For. It’s estimated that only 30% of guys who sleep with other guys actually make anal sex a part of their fun. Most are more interested in oral sex and jerking off. While many men find anal sex very pleasurable, it’s not for everyone. The sensation of penetrating a man’s ass is a nice one, and many guys also love the feeling of having a dick inside them, but it seems that the primary enjoyment between guys comes from playing and pleasuring the dick. It’s worthwhile trying to establish what it is that you enjoy about other guys. Do you just love the idea of playing with another guys cock, jerking and sucking it, or is the anal sex a very real part of your desires?

Preparing Yourself. If anal sex is a very important part of what you imagine your first gay sexual experience will involve, there are things you can do to make sure it goes well before you reach the point of taking a cock in your ass. There are plenty of toys out there, from anal probes designed to play with the prostate, to dildo’s designed to give you the sensation of having a dick in your butt. You can buy these on-line and experiment with the sensations, getting used to the feeling. It is always wise to buy an anal douche to go along with any anal toys you might buy. This allows you to clean the area adequately, and make the entire process a much cleaner one! You’d also want to have something like this handy before any anal sex with another guy. It’s only polite to make sure you’re clean before you have another guy sticking his dick up there!

Know Your Limits. We all have things that we just don’t want to do, and when it comes to sex there are many guys who stick to the things they enjoy and know when to say no to a partner who wants to take things further. If all you want to do is suck cock, make sure your partner knows this and agrees. And don’t be scared to put your foot down and draw the line if they try to pressure you into anything else. It’s great to be experimental, but not if that is forced upon you.

Use Protection. This goes without saying. It is vital to make sure you take responsibility for your health and the health of your partner by taking precautions. Remember, when you sleep with a guy you are sleeping with everyone they have slept with.

Find The Right Guy. The young man who posted the question on Yahoo! suggested that he has a few gay friends but he was scared of talking to them about it. He believed they would spread the news around and he’d be humiliated. Of course, it is safer to experiment with someone you know and trust, but this comes with the complexities of relationships and the risks of other friends and family finding out. If there is a guy you trust more than any others, someone you know would not exploit the discussion, then they would be the guy to go to for a discussion about it. Even if they’re straight, if all you’re seeking is some cock play they might actually be interested in this too. Many straight guys are interested in jerking off with others and sucking cock. If approaching someone you know is out of the question, consider checking some dating sites and get to know guys there, then maybe you could meet up with someone and they can help you to experiment safely. It should be remembered that stating you’re a virgin to gay sex will likely get you a lot of responses from guys looking to break someone in. lol

So there we have some basics, a little advice that I hope might help some of the readers here who have yet to experience sex between men. Abandon the stereotypes and don’t submit to what you imagine gay sex to be. It’s never that complex and your role is never set in stone. Most of all, enjoy the experience and don’t be scared to try the things you want to experience with other men.

Five Steps to a Bigger Cum Shot – Part 2

Monday, 18 April 2011 10:58 Written by conran 0 Comments

Last week I offered some of my top tips for getting a bigger cum load (Five Steps to a Bigger Cum Shot) after a friend of mine suggested he wanted to put on a bigger and better show in one of his live jerk off performances. After thinking about it for a little while after I realised that there are a few other suggestions to help you increase your cum load, one that might seem more obvious to some but deserve a mention.

So here is a follow up to that post, I hope some of these suggestions might help you if it’s something you’re interested in.

1. Edging. It kind of goes without saying that the more horny you are over a longer period of time the more cum you’ll squirt when you do finally let loose. Jerking off and stopping yourself right before the moment of climax is a great way to keep your cum load building over a period of time. Experts at this can actually maintain a cum-free orgasm for as long as they like, bringing themselves to the point at which the intense pleasure starts, but stopping themselves from ejaculating. When they do finally allow themselves to squirt, there is often far more to fire off. It takes a LOT of practice, but some can eventually get to the point of cumming just by thinking about it.

2. Prostate Massage. Many men are exploring the Prostate now that they know it exists. This gland is located inside the ass, behind your cock (if you can think of it that way) and is considered the epicentre of the male climax. This is where the magic starts, and a little massaging of it with a toy, finger or a buddy’s hard cock can dramatically increase your climax, both in sensation and physical ejaculation. Many men who practice this with specifically designed toys experience a considerably higher level of pleasure and a greater cum load when they shoot. Medical advice should of course be sought if you’re not sure about it or any pain or discomfort (beyond the expected) is experienced.

3. Porn. As I mentioned in number 1, the more horny you are the bigger your cum load is likely to be. Watching porn along with edging is obviously going to get you more worked up than jerking off alone in a dark room (unless you have a very vivid imagination). Men are most easily stimulated through physical sensation and visual cues, so it’s fair to suggest that watching hardcore porn will help you to increase you jizz load.

4. Abstinence. You might not want to hear it, but abstinence also helps. Again it’s related to increasing desire. The more horny you are the better for your cum load, and laying off the jerking or sex is a good way to build up your desperation for release. If you can leave your cock in your pants for a few days, while thinking about sex as often as you do, you will certainly see an increase when you finally allow yourself to go at it.

5. Exercise. Have you ever noticed how often guys get hard in the locker room and showers? This is sometimes misunderstood and taken to mean that a guy is interested in the cock beside him, but that’s not always the case. Of course these places are a real turn-on for many of us, and even a lot of guys who view themselves as straight have a fetish for dick and will start to get hard when they see a nice one. But after an intense work out it’s quite common for an increase in testosterone and other chemicals in the body – combined with the increased heart rate and blood pressure – to heighten sexual interest and general readiness for sex. This doesn’t just mean they are extra horny, or that they have to battle with a threatening stiffy, but also that the body is working in overdrive to get a cum load ready. Doing some daily exercise is a great way to not only increase your general health but also to improve your mental state and sexual readiness – along with your cum load.

Whatever your reasons for wanting to increase your cum load, there are plenty of things that you can do. But it should also be remembered that the capacity to create semen is different for most of us. We won’t all be able to cum like a porn star; we’re not all built that way. Some of us can improve our load, but some of us might already be shooting our limit. But why not try and see how much you can increase it by?

Are You A Foreskin Fanatic?

Wednesday, 13 April 2011 10:31 Written by conran 1 Comment

After my last post I thought I’d talk about something that has become somewhat of a growing underground industry if the Internet activity is to be believed. Foreskin restoration is one of those things that perhaps many are considering or thinking about, and have until recently not fully grasped how easy it actually is.

There are now forums and social groups all over the internet dedicated to discussing methods and practical solutions to help guys re-grow what they lost. And after taking a look at Google search trends, it seems clear that there has been a significant jump in the number of searches by guys seeking to change their cut cock back into an uncut one.

So, I wonder just how popular this idea is from an external perspective. As gay guys who presumably love the cock and everything about it, do you prefer your guys cut or au-natural? If you took a hunk home and tugged down his shorts to find a hooded bone like that of Nick Toretto, would it just make you even hungrier or would it turn you off?

Nick Toretto's Uncut Meat - Courtesy of CollegeDudes

And if you find it a turn on, have you considered growing your skin back?

I’m uncut, and I love foreskin myself, and being into Body Modification a little I’m quite interested in foreskin stretching and development. My foreskin covers the whole head when soft, and then slides back when hard. But I would like to have a longer hood like Nick Toretto’s. There’s just more to play with, and I love playing with other guys who have a lot of it too.

And it has to be mentioned that those who have restored also feel a significant increase in sexual sensation too. Which isn’t really surprising when you consider that the head of the penis is supposed to be the most sensitive part. This sensitivity can only decrease over time through exposure and friction.

Thankfully, it’s really easy to do using the basic principles of Body Modification – which is primarily stretching the skin – just as punks with piercings sometimes stretch their earlobes with rings and make tunnels. The skin is very flexible, and over time, with constant and careful stretching, a complete foreskin can be grown to cover the glands. I’ve seen some guys report complete coverage of the head within six months, and that was starting from nothing!

Of course, all it takes is a little imagination and DIY know-how to start stretching yourself, but for those who have no clue, check out the global leader in foreskin restoration – The TLC Tugger.

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